Book Review: What WeTalk About When We Talk About God – Rob Bell

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So I don’t usually do a lot of book reviews on this blog… but as a pastor and a leader of a next generation ministry, I felt like I needed to 1) read this book [especially in light of Love Wins] and 2) review it based on what I see, think, and have studied over the years.

Disclaimer: I must confess that I walked into this book with a lot of preconceived ideas about Rob Bell and his beliefs and writings.  I have read every single one of his books and, based on his last book, was in STRONG disagreement with his theological leaps and poor OT exegetical work.   It took a lot to get to the place where I could read this book objectively and comment on it without prejudging it.   But this did not help:

and after watching that… and then this:

I was sure that this book was going to 1) fall right in line with my preconceived notions & 2) become another lightening rod in the church for scrutiny.  But I was DETERMINED to walk into this book without my rose colored shades,  so I put my pride aside… and probably my better judgment… and began to read…

Review: Before I get started with this… I want to let you know that this will NOT be a chapter by chapter in-depth review of this book.  I will, however be thematic in this review.  I have determined that this book is both IMPORTANT and DANGEROUS for both the church and the unbelieving world.  I will write based upon those two premises… and then I want you to read the book for yourself. :-)

IMPORTANT FOR THE CHURCH AND WORLD: 

Bell is right when he asserts that there is a growing number of people in our world for whom the idea/concept of God is becoming a thing of the past.  I know because I have read the books, watched the debates on youtube, and heard the stories of some of my own students who have grown up at church, gone to a university, and are now professing atheists.  (or agnostics because they want to be safe)  So this book is timely because it raises the question “How do we address those people about a God that they are becoming more and more convinced does not exist?”  For that, I applaud Mr. Bell.  It can be very difficult to talk to an unbelieving, rational based, just the facts world that is bent on not believing… about believing in a God that they cannot test or prove.    So this book is important in the fact that it begins a conversation about how the church can take the timeless message of scripture and insert it in a timely way into our culture.  It is important for the world because it attempts to bridge the gap between faith and reason/science.  It attempts to answer HUGE questions that the unbelieving world has about God and how the concept of God and scripture is not some archaic thought… but a relevant and near one.  He uses 3 words: WITH, FOR, & AHEAD to describe that God is not a distant, uninvolved, “OUT-THERE” deity that intelligently designed all that we see and experience only to walk away from it, but that He is closer than we think… and He loves us so much that he is FOR us and that He is not a left behind thought… but is actually ahead of us trying to pull us into the future.  These are IMPORTANT things for the church and the world to begin to wrestle with.

DANGEROUS FOR THE CHURCH AND WORLD:

Okay… here is the deal.  Rob never comes out and says anything.  You have to be the mastermind of figuring out how to answer his

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But if you look into what he is proposing, you’ll begin to see that he answers his own questions and gives you hints and glimpses into his worldview and theology.  The reason that this book is dangerous for the church, is because Rob purports great questions about who we will say God is… and wants us to begin to think through how we talk about God, but every time he talks about God there is a “flavor,” if you will, of some eastern mysticism.  Rob is sounding more and more like a new age mystic, and less and less like a Christian.  He often equates God to a force, “hum inside,” bang that started the universe, or energy that connects us all.  (sounds a little like Star Wars to me)  To be honest, the more I read him doing this, the more uncomfortable I became.  I literally got to the end of the book and wondered if we were talking about the same God.  He talks of Jesus, quickly of the cross and resurrection, but most of his time is spent “REDEFINING” the conversation about God to make Him fit into a conversation that the world could relate to. Remember what he said in Velvet Elvis about changing the conversation?  It all is starting to make sense now.

This book is dangerous for the world because, while he speaks of God… and speaks of Jesus, one would not come to the conclusion at the end of this book that there is anything they would need to do to be forgiven.  In fact, he states in the chapter “For” that we must embrace who we are and realize that even in that mess God is FOR us. (noble concept… but what do you DO with that?)  He talks about confession… but mostly about confession as a way to alleviate guilt and not to repent for sin.  I must honestly say, at the end of the book I felt like I was in the final scene from the TV show “LOST” where Jack is in the back room in the church and there are multiple religious symbols in the stained glass representing that it didn’t matter what religion you were… all roads led there.  I’m not saying that was what Bell intended… but that is how it felt.  It felt like as long as you joined in on the conversation about the fact that God exists and he is not a thing of the past… that somehow you were golden.  I know there is more to this book than that… and I know that my bias shows a little because of what I read in Love Wins, but I wanted to honestly state wat I felt while reading it… and I urge you/encourage you to read it for yourself and see what you think.

So the big question for me about this book is this: Can a book that seems to be both IMPORTANT and DANGEROUS still be useful in my ministry?  My answer is YES… but I’ll save that for another day and another post :-)

EVALUATING YOUR EVENTS

So this past weekend we had our biggest student ministry event of the year… our annual Winter Retreat.  This is the one event during the year where we pull out all the stops and go above and beyond.  The retreat felt like it went awesome.  We had great numbers, everything went off smooth, and students were impacted.  But feelings aside… how do we REALLY know if it went well?  Early on in my ministry career I used to get done with an event… look at my volunteers and quickly ask, “Well, what did you think?”  That question was usually met with a “It went great.” or “It was good.”  But their responses always made me think “What was great?”  ”What was good?”  It’s because a general question gets a general response.  If you want specific details and specific evaluation… you must get specific.  You must ask specific questions.  About 5-6 years ago I came across an event evaluation tool (I forget where I got it from… but I know that I didn’t create it) that helped me get more specific about evaluating my events.  I started out filling out the paper myself.  Then, over time, I started having my staff team fill them out.  I am to the point now, where I have a 4 level approach to my evaluation process: Me, my staff, my interns, & then my volunteers.  I heard Andy Stanley say one time about leadership… “Why would I not want to know something?  It’s better to know, even if it is bad, then to not know and find out everyone was quietly thinking it.”  That’s why my evaluation process involves so many people.  So I thought that I would make our Event Evaluation sheets available if anyone wanted one.  Here you go… I hope this helps you evaluate your youth ministry events better!

HSM Retreat event eval sheet

“Coaching” in Student Ministry

So every once in a while I am asked how I lead my staff and volunteers in youth ministry. Before you know that, you need to know this: I love sports.  I think I always have.  So naturally I think of leadership in the terms of coaching a basketball team or a baseball team.  There are certain ones on my team who are assistant coaches, and others who are players.  I view my paid staff and interns as the assistant coaches and my volunteers as the players.  So, naturally, as their coach, I need to coach them differently in order to be successful and win.  A few years back I put together some guidelines for how I can coach my staff and volunteers better…  and this has been the thing I go back to often to #1) check if I am doing a good job coaching them & #2) gauge my success as a leader.  Here are those guidelines:

1. How can I COACH my STAFF better?

  • EQUIP them to lead their individual teams
  • MEET with them monthly for intentional leadership
  • CHECK IN with them weekly for updates & problem solving
  • MEET weekly for staff meetings to address concerns & cast vision

2. How can I COACH my VOLUNTEERS better?

  • Give CONSTANT and CONCISE vision to my team
  • INSPIRE the team to lead students toward Jesus
  • Use CONSISTENT language when I lead
  • PRAISE wins publicly, CHALLENGE mediocrity, & COACH through failures.

These are some of the reminders I give to myself to coach my team effectively.  What do you use?

Epic Quote of the Day

I have been reading Bill Hybel’s book “Too Busy Not To Pray” lately… and this one rocked me this morning:

“It’s one thing to own the doctrine of God’s omnipotence in history; it’s quite another to own the doctrine of His omnipotence today, in my hometown, over my problems and concerns.”

Love God; Love Students

So I was reading a book the other day that was talking about the “heart” of the matter when it comes to student ministry… and they said it was to “love God and love students.”  I couldn’t agree more… except they didn’t say anything else about it.  So I thought I would pull that statement into the student ministry world a little bit more :-) So here we go:

It is the student pastor’s responsibility to cultivate an environment among the volunteers in the student ministry of Loving God and Loving Students.  You must do both to be effective in student ministry.

LOVE GOD

First and foremost, we must love God.  Above being a student pastor… we are a worshipper.  Above being a student pastor… we are a child of God.  Our student ministry must flow out of a genuine love for God in our own lives.  If we are not passionate about God… why would we expect our students to be?

LOVE STUDENTS

This is what we do, right?  We need to have a genuine, compassionate, appropriate love for teenagers.  We also need to show our volunteers how to do this.  I don’t know about you… but I need to be reminded from time to time that THIS is why I got into this in the first place.

 

It’s How You Finish…

“The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.”  - Ecclesiastes 7:8

I was reminded today of a great principle to remember in youth ministry:  If you want your ministry to last and if you want to make it for the long haul in youth ministry… It’s not how you start, it’s how you finish.

Launching and starting something new is easy, and it usually is the part that brings the most excitement and energy… But it is the END of something that is the most important.  Take the New Orleans Saints football game sunday for example.  The Saints charged out to a commanding lead… only to lose the game in overtime.  What was their problem?  They did not finish strong.  They jumped out early… and then figured their momentum from their start would carry them through to the end.  But it is not how you start… it’s how you finish.

The END of something is the TRUE TEST of a leader.  Why?  Because beginning well doesn’t take a lot of internal strength and mental toughness.  Finishing strong does.  Finishing strong takes a lot of patience, intentionality, and consistent follow through.  And it is those qualities that you will need in youth ministry to make it for the long haul.

If you want to last in ministry… learn what it means to finish well.